RE: the question: ":Why do forum interactions become contentious". . .


I've just had a very unexpected and very unpleasant PM from a forum participant. 

He'd been suggesting I buy a certain component  and I told him politely that I didn't visualize that particular purchase fitting in with my long-range plans.  

His response was to accuse me of wasting everyone's time and to call me an "effing idiot" (except he spelled "effing" correctly). 

The great majority of interactions I've had here have been very enjoyable and recent input from
more experienced forum members has helped greatly in clarifying my plan for the next upgrade cycle. 

The thread on lesser-know Jazz has been great-- lots of participation and lots of terrific suggestions. 

Nevertheless, I've decided to take a break. 

Best regards,

Stuartk



stuartk

Showing 2 responses by mitch2

Good idea to take a break, and good luck with your challenges.  I get positive energy when I focus on the activities and people that I most enjoy.
As I recently posted in the cable debate thread,
"The conflict occurs when people need others to share their same beliefs"
Disagreements (about audio stuff) are often interesting and particularly when folks offer well thought-out arguments or personal observations to support their positions.  These forums would be boring without opposing viewpoints.  Having confidence in one's beliefs is fine, just keep the discussion on topic and tolerate those who disagree.   The consequence of not keeping disparaging remarks and personal attacks in check will be less participation on this site by potential new members and by others who do not want to put up with the antagonism.  Audiogon can decide what they want to tolerate, and then live with the result.