I think the Meadowlark Swift is a good choice, but I like the Vandy's too. You may want to consider the fact that alot of your "hardness and glare" comes from the CD's that you listen to. If you played vinyl, much of that would simply not be there, and much more music as a bonus.
Also, your bare hardwood floors and little furniture are not helping matters any.
Also, your bare hardwood floors and little furniture are not helping matters any.