Need pre amp looking for sugestions

I have a AR sp-16 I am happy with the sound and value but it doesn't have the functions I need so I am looking for a replacement. This is a tube pre amp I probably want another tube but would consider something else. Here is what the requirements are:

Has to have discreet on/off and component selection on the remote, so I can get it to integrate with my touch pads.

Some sort of remote trigger for other things, 12v or switched outlet.

Record out, or a sub room out.

Processor bypass so I can use it in my HT system.

Any Ideas?
Audio Research LS16 or LS25 ? ? ?
To stay with tubes ARC LS -16 or 25. But for those features & tubes it will cost. Possibly you should look into the Bryston pre-amp/processor line up