It's going to be convoluted with 3 libraries. Combine the music from the 3 computers onto one (the server) and enable iTunes sharing so all 3 can access it. Get a Nokia internet tablet and use software like Media Maestro to control iTunes on the server. Stream iTunes wirelessly with an Airport Express to the Breathe Audio.
That is one option but there are several different devices like the Nokia and different programs that would work. You could use VNC to control the server with the tablet.
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That is one option but there are several different devices like the Nokia and different programs that would work. You could use VNC to control the server with the tablet.
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