"Truman" you violated your own rules. You stated upfront that buyers with -0- feedback or lowball offers will be ignored. A -0- feedback buyer contacted you and you chose to engage him. Granted you did not complete a sale, but you also did not ignore him.
I understand why you were suspicious, but I also see where the buyer has tried to work with you, and offered to call you at their expense. You can easily verify the location of the caller using online tools.
I have dealt with foreign buyers who asked for delivery to a US address. Quite common actually to either lower shipping costs, or to combine with other purchases to ultimately lower shipping costs to a foreign location. When asked for this accommodation, I in turn ask the buyer to enter the new shipping address into their paypal profile, and then make sure it is verified before I ship. I also stipulate that I do not ship until all funds have cleared my bank account (not cleared my Paypal account). Never had a problem.
An alternative is to have the buyer send the purchase funds to their relative in VA, and have the relative purchase a US Postal Money Order that will be sent to you. You can cash the MO at any Post Office, and you will know immediately if it is fraudulent.
I understand why you were suspicious, but I also see where the buyer has tried to work with you, and offered to call you at their expense. You can easily verify the location of the caller using online tools.
I have dealt with foreign buyers who asked for delivery to a US address. Quite common actually to either lower shipping costs, or to combine with other purchases to ultimately lower shipping costs to a foreign location. When asked for this accommodation, I in turn ask the buyer to enter the new shipping address into their paypal profile, and then make sure it is verified before I ship. I also stipulate that I do not ship until all funds have cleared my bank account (not cleared my Paypal account). Never had a problem.
An alternative is to have the buyer send the purchase funds to their relative in VA, and have the relative purchase a US Postal Money Order that will be sent to you. You can cash the MO at any Post Office, and you will know immediately if it is fraudulent.