Yeah, the way you have them wired you are definitely putting a strain on those monos. I have the 3.7s and used to run them with a Pass 250.5. Tried the DWM's and never did get used to them. Tried several subs (some pretty expensive too) and just couldn't find the right integration.
Finally tried an inexpensive Martin Logan and it was great. Non ported and built to work with ML Electrostats so it was fast enough and very accurate. I never looked back. BTW..... Just a quick note. Take out those steel jumpers on the back panel and listen for a very large change in detail and dynamics. I happened to use Anticables but anything is better than the steel.
Finally tried an inexpensive Martin Logan and it was great. Non ported and built to work with ML Electrostats so it was fast enough and very accurate. I never looked back. BTW..... Just a quick note. Take out those steel jumpers on the back panel and listen for a very large change in detail and dynamics. I happened to use Anticables but anything is better than the steel.