I still have to get to a point where she would not say:
"there is no freaking difference between this and the previous speakers"
How do you find time to enjoy your $$$ speakers and system?
Maybe this topic is more of recommendation and sharing ideas than a question. We invested in our hifi systems for years to get to a place where we appreciate what our systems sound. Now, how do you find time to enjoy listening to music if many of us work long hours and still need to take care of family, errands etc…I don’t remember when was the last time I spent more than 2 hours a week at the most to enjoy the system I spent $$$ to build. How do you find time to enjoy your system?
I think that the answer to your question is pretty simple. We find or make time to do the things that are important to us. No matter how busy we say we are, most of us can look at any given day and realize that good portions of it were wasted.
Time management is a matter of awareness and discipline. It’s not easy.
When I was working and in the county (I spent a couple weeks out of the country a month). It was known to all that the ~ 45 minutes to hour before bed were my music time (distress time). My partner encouraged it because for over thirty years she saw me work 65 to 85__ sometimes much more working and taking care of her (she is disabled). She understood that it was a way for me to de-stress and relax… and that was likely to keep me alive longer.
I recommend you make it clear that you have a time each day. For me it was one album.
Now that I am retired it is about three hours. I get a bit fussy if anyone interfers with my music time… or exercise time… or painting time.