You don't mention how the bass or lower regions sound. And I don't recall hearing anybody consider the Triangles to be a 'warm' speaker.
Based on what you say above, I'd focus first and foremost on speaker placement and room acoustics. Room acoustics, as they say, can affect the sound you hear upwards of 80%.
This probably is not your problem but Totem makes some 'beakers' that you sit on top of speaker cabinets. I listened to a pair of Totems floorstanders without the beakers on top. The highs were somewhat shrill and beaming and causing a near ear bleed. The saleman then put the beakers on and the beaming stopped instantly.
Apparently, Totem had discovered that the highs like to gather at the top of the cabinet and then shoot straight into your ear and the beakers prevent that gathering from occurring and their subsequent beaming. (or something like that).
I believe they sell the beakers seperately if you think this at all could be contributing to the problem.
Altering the room acoustics may solve most of your problem. But in the end, you may have to switch to a warmer speaker with a soft or silk domed tweeter.
-IMO
Based on what you say above, I'd focus first and foremost on speaker placement and room acoustics. Room acoustics, as they say, can affect the sound you hear upwards of 80%.
This probably is not your problem but Totem makes some 'beakers' that you sit on top of speaker cabinets. I listened to a pair of Totems floorstanders without the beakers on top. The highs were somewhat shrill and beaming and causing a near ear bleed. The saleman then put the beakers on and the beaming stopped instantly.
Apparently, Totem had discovered that the highs like to gather at the top of the cabinet and then shoot straight into your ear and the beakers prevent that gathering from occurring and their subsequent beaming. (or something like that).
I believe they sell the beakers seperately if you think this at all could be contributing to the problem.
Altering the room acoustics may solve most of your problem. But in the end, you may have to switch to a warmer speaker with a soft or silk domed tweeter.
-IMO