All good advice. However, just so you know that it can be done if you're careful. I've bought/sold/shipped five TTs, several 100+ lbs. amps, preamps, phono stages, etc. with no problems.
One thing I will never do is purchase a used phono cartridge unless it was from someone I knew very well.
One thing I will never do is purchase a used phono cartridge unless it was from someone I knew very well.