For anyone who moved from tubes to solid state — a question

We have these two recent statements:

best of breed tube and solid state are very close now, and ever converging

And the opposite claim:

Tubes and SS are a different paradigm. They approach producing music from different perspectives. My understanding is that tubes are a more visceral experience and SS more intellectual.

Thing is both of these can be true. Depends on the amps. People can jump and complain but the thing is some tube amps measure as good as SS amps and some SS amps measure as bad as tube amps. The traditional "tube sound"  smoothness is due to the harmonics they distort. It has a pleasant sound that most people enjoy especially with analog. That digital "glare" some complain about is because we're used to hearing the distortion of vinyl and tape played through tubes and think somehow that's the way music should sound. If someone thinks digital glares or is hard edged and difficult to listen to for long have a 3 piece jazz ensemble in your living room and listen to the sax or trumpet and tell me about glare or next time you're in a concert hall listen carefully to the violins and flute/piccolo section. So to cut to the chase to me music sounds more real, instruments naturally have ringing and glare and good neutral SS reproduces it better. 
What did I give up? Distortion. 

I tried tubes but never liked them I grew up with SS, perhaps that's why. I've moved to active speakers no longer worry about amp matching and whatnot.

Distortion is what causes solid state amps to be bright and harsh.

Distortion is what causes solid state amps that measure as bad as tube amps to be bright and harsh. Take something like the Benchmark AHB2 noise and distortion is below audibly of humans. No tube amp can come close to it and very few SS amps.