Try Discovery Essence cables. VPI tonearms are internally wired with Discovery cable. Talk to Joe DePhillips, he's a member here at AgoN. His moniker is 'Wires'.
I am in the midst of a cable "shootout" with four pairs of speaker cable on loan from the Cable co. It's a good way to go IMO. It has allowed me to audition these choices together in my system for a period of about two weeks........ Although at this point I am ready to be finished "auditioning cables".
You might want to give them a call to get some recommendations and to set up a demo.
Zenieth, balanced cables have just as much tonal variation as RCA cables. Golden Reference sounds warm and lush, in any configuration, and probably was not a good match for you system. Cardas Neutral Reference is a much more neutral cable and would probably work better for you. I second CMO's recommendation of the Cable Co. You can try out several cables, with your rental fee going towards the purchase. Cardas NR and Audience AU24 are good cables to start with.