Don't Feel Guilty Spending $$$

Buyers remorse is common , but passes quickly . I'd likely feel guilty too sometimes but with a wife that has no regard for money whatsoever , ( has two high end cars , and spends more on threads in a year than most people make ) .
You can't take it with you and the kids will only fight over it .

Don't get to worked up 63, I think most of us understand your situation. But keep in mind many of us have had prosperous times and have become complacent, please don't hold that against us.