I had that experience too. Then several changes made it go way. I changed transport and DAC to NorthStar 192 upsampling and 50% of it went way, then I changed tweeters. It is gone or nearly gone.
Yet I think both changes gave me more detail and neutrality in that everything sounds more natural, dynamic when dynamic, and relaxed and smooth when called for, with much more clarity of timbre. I can more clearly hear the female singers in-breath for example, but no more spitting.
Also there is now much more difference between bad recordings and good ones, yet more recordings sound better.
Rest of the quipment is ss with Aragon 28K pre and 8008BB amp, and Polk SRS-SDA 2.3 speakers. So the harshness is IMO not inherent in the media.
Yet I think both changes gave me more detail and neutrality in that everything sounds more natural, dynamic when dynamic, and relaxed and smooth when called for, with much more clarity of timbre. I can more clearly hear the female singers in-breath for example, but no more spitting.
Also there is now much more difference between bad recordings and good ones, yet more recordings sound better.
Rest of the quipment is ss with Aragon 28K pre and 8008BB amp, and Polk SRS-SDA 2.3 speakers. So the harshness is IMO not inherent in the media.