You answered your question really-since you no longer feel comfortable then by all means follow your instincts.
As for staying with ebay, that's a personal choice. I've been a member for 3 years & transactions run the gamut. Here on A-gon every transaction has been great much but you still have to do a little research when buying & selling.
To further comment on your pending transaction if a seller (or buyer for that matter) refused to give me a phone # I would consider that strange & not go through with the deal. It's almost a necessity when doing an audio deal to get a "feel" for the other party & the phone call is a definite determining factor. Again, since you said you feel uncomfortable this is an indication of intuition telling you to beware. Lots of deals to had in the audio world so if at first you don't succeed....
As for staying with ebay, that's a personal choice. I've been a member for 3 years & transactions run the gamut. Here on A-gon every transaction has been great much but you still have to do a little research when buying & selling.
To further comment on your pending transaction if a seller (or buyer for that matter) refused to give me a phone # I would consider that strange & not go through with the deal. It's almost a necessity when doing an audio deal to get a "feel" for the other party & the phone call is a definite determining factor. Again, since you said you feel uncomfortable this is an indication of intuition telling you to beware. Lots of deals to had in the audio world so if at first you don't succeed....