Best place to demo small room setup in LA/SD metro

I have a small den off my kitchen that has housed a NAD 3200 integrated amp and KEF 104/2 speakers. We call it our party system, nice warm background music played at moderate volume. After 20 years, want to upgrade to similar neutral sounding system--great natural sound for small room. Can anyone recommend knowledgable dealers who have expertise in this in the LA and San Diego area. Also, any recommendations for optimizing a $20,000 budget. Open to tube versus solid state.
Brooks Berdan Ltd. in Monrovia. 110 West Olive. 626-359-9131. The best dealer I know. Friendly and no high pressure sales tactics.
In San Diego area, check with Stereo Unlimited and Blackbird Audio.

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Yep, I would second the Brooks Berdan recommendation. I heard a relatively inexpensive VTL amp driving some Wilson Sophias in a relatively small room there and the sound was mesmerizing.
Visual Sound
841 E Whittier Blvd. Suite C, La Habra, Ca 90631
Phone: 562.691.HIFI (4434)

Great guys and the have several listening rooms.
My suggestion would be to contact Jay Kaufman at Audio Revelation (San Diego). He carries many lines of great products and is very knowledgeable and helpful as well as being a hell of a nice guy. I have purchased a lot of gear from Jay over the last several years and have been extremely impressed with terrific service and amazing results.

You can reach him at

Audio Revelation
2630 Pirineos Way #24
Carlsbad, CA 92009
760.944.0444 9am-6pm PST Monday through Saturday

Good luck.
I'd recommend Gene Rubin Audio in Ventura for a taste of the British sound. Small room systems are what the Brits do best.
My company is Audio Architect and our showroom is in La Jolla.
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brooks berdan in monrovia is superb. i purchaseed my preamp from him.
in san diego, you may want to check out stereo design. [bought my speakers there] they have several listening rooms. with a $20k budget, you will have a variety of excellent options, perhaps many that will get you closer to "neutral" than NAD, which is excellent in it's price range, but at 20K, you have the opportunity to purchase above where NAD shines brightest. i think much has changed in 20 years especially in terms of quality choices. i suggest going to a variety of showrooms with your favorite cd's, and start by listening, taking notes about what impresses you and what does not.note model numbers, not only brand names. keep in mind that system synergy is key. poor sounding speakers in one system may be wonderful in another, and since you are starting fresh, matched amp/preamp may be a good way to go, perhaps even an integrated component may offer you more $s for other aspects of the system, such as better quality cables and ICs, which can make a huge difference in obtaining the highest quality from specific componenets . maybe a power conditioner is needed in the budget too? if you decide that the system you purchase is going to stay put for 10+ years, as your last one did, then communicate this to the dealers. you need to approach the system as a cohesive whole from the start rather than compromise one part of the system with the intention of upgrading in a year or two, as many in audiogonland do. [different approaches to suit different goals - short and long term -- and the realities of budgets.] if you do not plan any major upgrades in the next few years, go for a system you will enjoy from the get-go, one that presents excellently all around as it is, not with one weak link. often a system with one component in a league far above the others does not create the best possible system for here and now enjoyment. [my system, for example, is one that will continue to evolve over the next few years. my "turntable system" is far below the other components. i can live with that presently because vinyl is not a key focus currently. if i required the system to be complete and more even-sounded at this time, i might have purchased different speakers and placed more money into the turntable section.]

ps. listen to a wide variety first. initially, if you start your search with the thought to re-educate your EARS as much as your intelligence about the current audio choices, you will be in a much stronger position in a few months [yes, not weeks] to make choices for the long term.
Just a quick follow-up:

Thanks for the recommendation of Brooks. Previewed the VTL and Wilson combo this weekend and it is everything I could have dreamed for.

Can't wait to check out the other guys. All your responses are much appreciated.