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  Girlfriends and wifes, how do YOU cope?
I would be very interested in finding out how one manages to justify (or sneak in the home) expensive audio equipment without having to sell your soul to the Devil? It's quite a challenge for many of us I think. I heard of someone buying a Bel Canto DAC and telling his girlfriend that " Oh it's just a $ 100.00 power conditionner", or whatever. Seem like we need to get creative here if we can pursue this crazy hobby much longer! Regards All...
Ampman66  (Threads | Answers | This Thread)

07-21-01
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07-21-01   I managed it by getting my wife as into it as i am. this was ...   Dbw1

07-21-01   I always tell the truth and either get an approval or not. ...   Dekay

07-21-01   My wife is very understanding. she understands i could be i ...   Vegasears

07-21-01   Honetsty about what you can afford is the best approach. to ...   Blueswan

07-21-01: Lornecherry
Girl friends and wives are easy to cope with, provided you follow some very simple audio rules that I've picked up from the audiogon site....

1) Try to find a truly balanced mate. Avoid the single ended type, as I hear they don't sound as good and tend to get a bit loose after a while.

2) Make sure she's solid state. Older tube types tend to burn out after too much use and are hard to find replacements for. (Tube swapping can be fun, but don't get caught.)

3) Be sure to use adequate room treatments. Mine likes Ethan Allan. Avoid Sears and Ikea, or your mate will constantly sound bad.

4) If you don't like what you hear after a few months, upgrade quickly to something else. Constant upgrading can be quite expensive.

5) Make sure that she has an adequate source of power in order to avoid unecessary static and interference. If that doesn't help, get her own dedicated line, plug her in, and leave her alone.

6) Give her a chance to warm up before you do any serious listening. This is especially helpful for tube wives, who can become sweet sounding and forgiving after you listened to them for half an hour or so.

7) Try to find a remote control model. If they're too loud you can simply turn them off without lifting your feet off the couch.

8) Certain new models can be programmed to respond to a series of commands, such as: "Honey, I'll be back by 2:00 AM", or Can you get me another beer from the fridge?" However, these models tend to be very expensive and hard to find on the open market. Those of us that do have them, tend not to part with them.

9) If they blow a fuse, it means you've accidently touched something that's overly sensistive, or she's got her wires crossed.

10) If the volume becomes too loud, leave the room and go put away dishes or clean something. The volume will be lower and less irritating when you return.

Above all, make sure you spend time listening to her each evening and be sure not to turn her off until you leave for work in the morning. --Lorne

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07-21-01   I learned many many years ago from a pro...my father. my dad ...   Ucmgr

07-21-01   I use to sneak the stuff in. hide the receipt. tell sales pe ...   Glen

07-21-01   You folks are great : ) besides lorne's "suggestions ...   Sean

07-21-01   I consider myself lucky in that, while by no means rich, my ...   Garfish

07-21-01   My girlfriend doesn't care ...... but my wife moans once in ...   Catalogwiz

07-22-01   Loved this post, and lornecherry you cracked me up. sean als ...   Djohn

07-22-01   Dekay, i bet you bought that princess diana mix"n" ...   David99

07-22-01   I used to try a lot of the tricks mentioned above, but got t ...   Driver

07-22-01   My wife is pretty cool about it. we been together for 28 yea ...   Rosstaman

07-22-01   Honesty is indeed the best policy, but marraige involves com ...   Djlackey5

07-22-01   Hi, upgrade you girlfriend, (or wife)! from italy, diver (p. ...   Diver

07-22-01   David99: very funny and i had forgotten about the old laund ...   Dekay

07-22-01   Dekay,isnt that the way one washes clothes anyway? i guess i ...   David99

07-22-01   Yes, david it's a bit warm now so maybe save the chick magne ...   Dekay

07-22-01   Dekay-hmm,so the wife told you to loose the sweater because ...   David99

07-22-01   Not a problem, not to worry: i sold my old "button&quo ...   Dekay

07-22-01   Throw 'em out!!! see how long they can make it on their own ...   Docroc

07-22-01   Ps: david, having privately discussed a few minor matters w ...   Dekay

07-22-01   My wife has listened with me for over thirty years. she was ...   Pls1

07-22-01   Girlfriends and wifes, how do i cope? easy, i never allow ...   Albertporter

07-22-01   Psssttt...... the secret is to bring your wife into this mad ...   Angela100

07-22-01   Angela, do you use this on your husband, or are you still lo ...   Albertporter

07-22-01   I subscribed to various audio magazines and was an enthusias ...   Ozfly

07-22-01   Albert, that is how he seduced me into this madness.... he g ...   Angela100

07-23-01   I've attempted (successfully, i think) to get my wife used t ...   Kthomas

07-23-01   My wife has started using the system more, when i am out (wh ...   Dekay

07-23-01   I "done in" my man, buried him in a shallow pit in ...   Elizabeth

07-23-01   What a shame. i assume that at 14 years old he was at his p ...   Dekay

07-23-01   Elizabeth, i hope you buried him with the portion of the mu ...   Albertporter

07-23-01   My best break was w/ my mother in law. we auditioned speaker ...   Gregm

07-23-01   Greg, i'll give you three tweaks and a small box of cables f ...   Ozfly

07-24-01   Oz, you're onto something there. thanks for opening my eyes! ...   Gregm

07-24-01   simple i don't keep count of her shoes and she doesn't co ...   Mwalsdor

07-24-01   I did not visit this thread for a while because i thought it ...   Slawney

07-24-01   Hi, my name is margrit, and i have known "slawney" ...   Slawney

07-24-01   Bravo!   Drubin

07-24-01   Yes, thank you for the insight margrit. you have done well ...   Dekay

07-25-01   What a wonderful lady. thanks for sharing your experiences ...   Albertporter

07-27-01   She doesn't ask, and i don't tell. we've been married for ov ...   Jmcgrogan2

08-23-01   I was married to an audiophile once. i encouraged him to bu ...   Suzy

08-23-01   Suzy: what a great story from "the other side." m ...   Cornfedboy

10-22-01   Hay kelly do you go with your wife when she goes to europe o ...   Tireguy

10-26-01   I've got a new girlfriend who could care less about this aud ...   South_park

10-26-01   Hiding the pre and cds in an arty-but-rigid arts&crafts cabi ...   Subaruguru

10-31-01   Give the wife more back rubs while listening to the equips n ...   Trappist


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