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  Girlfriends and wifes, how do YOU cope?
I would be very interested in finding out how one manages to justify (or sneak in the home) expensive audio equipment without having to sell your soul to the Devil? It's quite a challenge for many of us I think. I heard of someone buying a Bel Canto DAC and telling his girlfriend that " Oh it's just a $ 100.00 power conditionner", or whatever. Seem like we need to get creative here if we can pursue this crazy hobby much longer! Regards All...
Ampman66  (Threads | Answers | This Thread)

07-21-01
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08-10-02   Well, i don't know what you were talking about, but that is ...   Gumbydammit

08-10-02   i know that this forum is supposed to be about audio and su ...   Basement

08-11-02   Basement, you will hardly find one of the female gender, who ...   Detlof

08-11-02   Basement- fwiw i don't hang out with girls that don't expres ...   Tireguy

08-11-02   Basement, i can't imagine being in a relationship where my p ...   Ozfly

08-11-02   slawney; i just took detlofs' recomendation, first, i had t ...   Basement

08-11-02   jeeze, maybe i am just lucky or i try much harder (if i a ...   D_maver

08-12-02   This is a very simple question. the answer has been shown to ...   Twl

08-12-02   I love watching sports, particularly basketball. i used to ...   Kthomas

09-13-02   Not many responses to this lately. my wife and i and one of ...   D_maver

09-15-02   Would that make it a tri-amping situation? always wanted to ...   Rockhead

01-02-03   Hmmmm, i have not been here for a while.. twl:the first rep ...   Gumbydammit

01-10-03   Count your blessings people. i now have an "ex-wife&quo ...   Picasso_04901

01-26-03: Rogocop
First: Honestly assess the situation: If the fact that your amp puts out 1200 watts per at 8 ohms doesn't draw even the slightest hint of interest from you significant other, drop that line of conversational openers like a hot potato. You'll only dig a deeper hole with each new technical pronouncement, and may eventually cause her eyes to keep rolling around her head without ceasing - Kind of like the black hole vortex intro to Twilight Zone. Don't laugh - I've seen it and it's not a pretty sight. In fact, you can probably draw on previous experiences with your car to determine if she will buy this one.

Second: If you can get away with this one, go for it. "Honey, you don't really want to know." If she says - "Oh yes I do", go to option 3 - post haste.

Third: Get her involved in the decorating side of the hobby. I have a friend whose wife dismissed the whole HT concept as a colossal waste of money, until she learned of the decorating possibilities. Now she's bugging my buddy to get more, bigger, faster, louder, brighter.... so she can make the HT of her dreams! Be careful, this may unleash a genie you can't put back in the bottle.

Fourth: And this is no bull. Set the system up so she can push one or two buttons and have the thing running. It's how I justified the Crestron. Honey' I've made it easy -see?

But as others have widely shared... if you can make this a family passion and not just yours....you'll have a lot more success for all the right reasons.

Rogocop  (Threads | Answers | This Thread)


03-12-03   Hey, anybody know that albert collins song, "master cha ...   Crazy4blues

04-26-03   Packaging. try packaging. for instance, this morning i dis ...   Unclejeff

06-23-03   08-11-02: tireguy, i would not agree more!   Sorlowski

07-03-03   I try not to have them in the same room listening to audio!   Charker

07-23-03   I made a deal: either i spend money on a motorcycle (danger ...   Dsr314

08-23-03   My girlfriend loves the stuff, and to boot, she has supersen ...   Jsujo

08-25-03   Hey jsujo, great response. ther is a whole lot of 'me' in t ...   Unclejeff

08-25-03   Don't have either used to have a wife - had to get petty up ...   Audiotomb

08-25-03   2) play van morrison's moondance while making love to her (w ...   Jsujo

10-04-03   Simple...just get them as involve and interested as you are ...   Jolen1aub

10-04-03   Mc402,,your wife a neurosurgeon?..;-)   Jsujo

10-06-03   Start with a budget that she agrees to even if it is only $1 ...   Vx700

10-06-03   Not a big deal for me. my girlfriend is prety cool about it. ...   Rjcaero1

10-22-03   My wife is the nicest you could ever have, whatever i like s ...   Jayctoy

11-06-03   How you do dat jay cee, with your toy?   Detlof

12-11-03   I know what you mean. my husband just gets so sick of me co ...   Joyelyse

12-18-03   Oh yes...we're out here! im with you,joyelyse.i love this sh ...   Darla79

12-19-03   Welcome to the 'gon darla. i look forward to hearing more f ...   Ozfly

12-21-03   Hey..thanks for the suggestion,ozfly..:)but i think im gonna ...   Darla79

01-24-04   As she passes you in the hallway while you are carrying that ...   Vvrinc

01-28-04   Hi, for a cd only bedroom system near $1k i'd start with the ...   Nietzschelover

05-19-04   I don't ask what's in the saks and neiman's bags i always te ...   Lemmycaution

06-06-04   Well the usual question women and hifi... as a student with ...   rossip@

06-06-04   As long as i buy the new fridge, stove, re-do the kitchen an ...   Homer

06-06-04   Sheep are the perfect solution. they are indistinguishable i ...   Jsonic

06-13-04   My girlfriend spends more on clothes.   Steam3642

06-13-04   Homer, do you actually have time to listen to your system?? ...   Ozfly

07-04-04   First, never, never, never have a girlfriend if you have a w ...   Lakefrontroad

07-07-04   Probably a better question is, how do they cope?"   Ehoehn

07-09-04   I married an audioligist who loves to evaluate sound quality ...   Bdscott

07-22-04   Headphones work nicely.   Rgs92

09-21-04   I see no one has posted to this for a while, and forgive me ...   Sfabisch

10-14-04   Just found this thread. good question. someone once said t ...   Tgrisham

10-14-04   This is the funniest thread ive read so far!!! i was married ...   Raytheprinter

10-14-04   Luckily i've never had to worry about waf for audio, flying, ...   Shventus

03-05-05   It always amazes me when guys that are married or have a gir ...   Joeylawn36111


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