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  About Lugnut -- Patrick Malone
Many of us have come to know Patrick Malone (Lugnut) as a friendly, helpful, knowledgeable and kind individual. He is a frequent and enthusiastic contributor to our analog discussion forum. He has initiated only 17 threads, but responded to 559 threads. I would guess that many, if not most, of us can recall a time when Pat replied with helpful advice to a question we posted or helped us track down a rare recording. I have come to love Pat as a friend, and to respect him as a man, and I suspect many of you share those feelings.

Today I write to share difficult news with you. Pat has been diagnosed with an aggressive stomach cancer. It has yet to be determined whether surgery will even be worth it. If surgery is performed, most or all of the stomach will be removed, and Pat would face a difficult and long post-op period in the hospital. The medical course is still uncertain, but will be determined soon. Whatever is decided, it will not be easy or pleasant.

Something may be planned in the future to assist the family. For now, Pat could use some of the friendship he so often and willingly showed us. You can email Pat at: lugnut50@msn.com. You can also mail cards, letters ... or whatever. You may email me for Pat's mailing address. My email is: pfrumkin1@comcast.net.

I hope to spend a few days with Pat in Idaho or Nebraska (from which he hails) soon. Between this news, my legal work, getting ready for family arriving for the holidays, Audio Intelligent, and trying to make plans to visit Pat, my head is spinning. If you email me and I don't respond, please understand that I am not ignoring you, but rather simply do not have time to reply.

Pat may or may not have time to respond to posts here, to emails, or to cards mailed to him. But he has asked me to convey to each and every one of you that he has cherished your friendship, your comradery, and sharing our common hobby on this great website.

As we prepare for our holiday season celebrations, and look forward to -- as we should -- enjoying this time of year, I ask that you keep Pat and his family in mind ... and softly offer up, in quiet moments in the still of night and early morning, prayers for Pat and his family. God bless.

Warmest regards to all,
Paul Frumkin
Paul_frumkin  (System | Threads | Answers | This Thread)

12-22-04
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08-07-05   Happy b-day pat! (i'm just a few days [and several years] b ...   Zaikesman

08-07-05   . happy birthday pat, . enjoy yourself today. i hope the u ...   Cello

08-08-05   Happy birthday, pat. glad to hear you're feeling better. a ...   Boa2

08-08-05   Pat, one request. even if your feeling on top of the world ...   Albertporter

08-08-05   Happy birthday, pat.   Springbok10

08-08-05   Happy belated birthday pat. i was out of town for three day ...   Lngbruno

08-12-05   Hey pat. happy birthday man! enjoy   Ecclectique

08-12-05   Happy birthday pat !   Tobias

08-12-05   Happy b-day pat,im really glad your having good days!and i h ...   Raytheprinter

08-12-05   Another steroid high started about five minutes ago. of cour ...   Lugnut

08-12-05   Pat- crosby's album is a cracker-enjoy. fyi-the all blacks a ...   Ben_campbell

08-12-05   Pat, my reading of the springbok video is that miracles happ ...   Springbok10

08-12-05   Denis, i've already experienced the miracle of life and th ...   Lugnut

08-13-05   Pat, i can't decide which represents living the most dangero ...   Zaikesman

08-13-05   Alex, this is an interesting world. idaho has a bad rap for ...   Lugnut

08-13-05   You rattle on all you like pat - i love reading it. it mean ...   Zaikesman

08-14-05   A boat named row v. wade. damn that's good. i like the way y ...   The_smokester

08-14-05   Patrick all blacks ~ not a lame name at all.new zealand has ...   Bluebull

08-14-05   If you really enjoy the game of rugby, i highly recommend th ...   Boa2

08-14-05   Apologies for being awol so long. life has been exceedingly ...   Paul_frumkin

08-14-05   Paul, welcome back. i've been concerned about you. congrats ...   Lugnut

08-15-05   You will never be off our radar or far from our thoughts, pa ...   Swampwalker

08-15-05   Lugnut, it sounds like you are forecasting what might become ...   Lngbruno

08-15-05   Lngbruno- amazing quotes. who is the author of the 2nd?   Swampwalker

08-16-05   You guys are way too generous in what you think of me. hones ...   Lugnut

08-16-05   Pat. you are a hero. i appreciate the time you've taken to ...   Gunbei

08-16-05   Swampwalker, the second quote is by captain danjel bout. ...   Lngbruno

08-16-05   Pat, as always i enjoyed talking with you yesterday. i didn ...   Nrchy

08-16-05   . nrchy, . beautifully said.....and i agree wholeheartedly. ...   Cello

08-16-05   Dear lugnut, i've only recently found this post, and have sp ...   Snofun3

08-19-05   Pat says he doesn't want us to think of him as a hero, and i ...   Zaikesman

08-19-05: Boa2
Zaikesman,
A startling post, one that at 4:30am just woke me up with a zest more potent than the coffee I was longing for only a moment ago.

You spoke thoughtfully of the human condition. Perhaps you were even referring parenthetically to the themes described in the book of the same name (in French), "La Condition Humaine," authored by a man who lived three lives in the space of one, Andre Malraux. The book suggests, as I think you might be doing so here, that inherent in our human condition is the incessant drive to be more than human, to give exaggerated meaning to our actions such that we might one day be able to consider ourselves as having overcome the limitations of our own humanity. In other words, to live as though the story we leave in our wake might actually be larger than the life it is meant to encapsulate. This, in my view, is how we so often make heroes out of people whose lives were anything but. Perhaps it gives us hope that we too will be remembered for being more than the person we believe ourselves to be. We celebrate the actions of others out of our own need to see them as heroic. For whatever reason, it makes us feel good to use that word. We share anecdotes of brave firefighters, daring journalists, actors who have overcome the odds, volunteer soldiers, wealthy real estate magnates, and even the occasional life-saving Rottweiler, just to remind ourselves that anyone has the ability to triumph over his own nature. To be more than human, as it were.

Pat, you are no more human than any of us. And at the same time, you are inarguably a hero. No, not in the sense that you have managed to become a character that supercedes the reality of your life. Rather, you are a hero to so many here because you have allowed us the privilege of watching you embrace the very reality that IS your life. And in doing so, you have sparked the rather unnatural and uncommon desire for us to become intimate with ourselves at a level that most of us never even knew existed. Zaikesman speaks of it so lovingly. And as much love as you have spread here, it is only just that you take some back, in whatever form of namecalling that represents. So there. You are the third hero in my life, the first being my father. The second, Muhammad Ali. And now you. Accept it. Heroism is for the living, and I've never seen anyone more alive than you are now.

Boa2  (Threads | Answers | This Thread)


08-19-05   Pat, i have been following this post for a few months and am ...   Douger

08-20-05   Another chatty post courtesy of the steroids. about the only ...   Lugnut

08-19-05   Just an update for lugnut fans, i talked to pat for quite a ...   Nrchy

08-20-05   Nrchy's quote: "i think he's said it before, he's read ...   Danlib1

08-23-05   Good news, all. pat and barb will be coming to san francisc ...   Boa2

08-23-05   I hear that deja vu sf will have you singing the blues after ...   Gunbei

08-23-05   Dean, you'd better be there, stuffin' twenties.   Boa2

08-23-05   Dean is 20 ? 20 what ?   Albertporter

08-23-05   Great news pat! have a good weekend, watch out for the guys ...   Nrchy

08-23-05   Went to amoeba in the haight (and berkeley) when i was visit ...   Zaikesman

08-23-05   hey lug have a great time, i just got my firdt tube pre so ...   Chadnliz

08-24-05   This should prove to be a very interesting weekend. admitted ...   Lugnut

08-24-05   Pat, i'm afraid that like all things highly cultured, i have ...   Boa2

08-24-05   I'm jealous. since meeting pat here on my turf, i wish i ha ...   Albertporter

08-24-05   By the way, pat. at the airport, i'll be the guy who looks ...   Boa2

08-24-05   Hey albert. budget. what budget? you gotta do like i do. cha ...   Lugnut

08-24-05   Rest up, pat. we've got activities planned, buddy.   Boa2

08-25-05   have fun guys!!! do come back with some tales to tell!! pa ...   Raytheprinter


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