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  About Lugnut -- Patrick Malone
Many of us have come to know Patrick Malone (Lugnut) as a friendly, helpful, knowledgeable and kind individual. He is a frequent and enthusiastic contributor to our analog discussion forum. He has initiated only 17 threads, but responded to 559 threads. I would guess that many, if not most, of us can recall a time when Pat replied with helpful advice to a question we posted or helped us track down a rare recording. I have come to love Pat as a friend, and to respect him as a man, and I suspect many of you share those feelings.

Today I write to share difficult news with you. Pat has been diagnosed with an aggressive stomach cancer. It has yet to be determined whether surgery will even be worth it. If surgery is performed, most or all of the stomach will be removed, and Pat would face a difficult and long post-op period in the hospital. The medical course is still uncertain, but will be determined soon. Whatever is decided, it will not be easy or pleasant.

Something may be planned in the future to assist the family. For now, Pat could use some of the friendship he so often and willingly showed us. You can email Pat at: lugnut50@msn.com. You can also mail cards, letters ... or whatever. You may email me for Pat's mailing address. My email is: pfrumkin1@comcast.net.

I hope to spend a few days with Pat in Idaho or Nebraska (from which he hails) soon. Between this news, my legal work, getting ready for family arriving for the holidays, Audio Intelligent, and trying to make plans to visit Pat, my head is spinning. If you email me and I don't respond, please understand that I am not ignoring you, but rather simply do not have time to reply.

Pat may or may not have time to respond to posts here, to emails, or to cards mailed to him. But he has asked me to convey to each and every one of you that he has cherished your friendship, your comradery, and sharing our common hobby on this great website.

As we prepare for our holiday season celebrations, and look forward to -- as we should -- enjoying this time of year, I ask that you keep Pat and his family in mind ... and softly offer up, in quiet moments in the still of night and early morning, prayers for Pat and his family. God bless.

Warmest regards to all,
Paul Frumkin
Paul_frumkin  (System | Threads | Answers | This Thread)

12-22-04
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01-12-05   Lugnut, woof woof ! so very cool to see you posting-- l ...   Focusedfx

01-12-05   Ahoooooo! werewolves of london. dogs also have a very keen ...   Jmcgrogan2

01-12-05   Patrick, part dog aye? then come to hawaii, i'm a veterinar ...   Shventus

01-12-05   Patrick so how did rikki lee sound better than ever i suppos ...   Mejames

01-12-05   Just got back on the boards - great to hear your home. we'l ...   Slate1

01-13-05   Pat, hope all is going well, you are in my prayers. ready ...   Jphii

01-13-05   Joe, any time you want to visit is good with me.   Lugnut

01-13-05   Welcome home pat. it was refreshing to hear you sounding so ...   Twl

01-18-05   Hi guys, well, this posting is hard to write. i've struggle ...   Lugnut

01-18-05   Pat, i think it's safe to say we audiogoners speak with one ...   Paul_frumkin

01-18-05   Pat, thank you for the update, and please never hesitate to ...   Dougdeacon

01-18-05   Pat, it's good to hear from you, thanks for sharing the good ...   Jmcgrogan2

01-18-05   Goo luck, pat. as you can see, we all think about you every ...   Swampwalker

01-19-05   Hi pat, being in a family with full of physicians,i want yo ...   Ttrhp

01-19-05   Thanks for the encouraging words everyone, both on this thre ...   Lugnut

01-19-05   pat, she (your wife barb) has as much as pleasure and satis ...   Eldragon

01-19-05   Pat, they may have removed part of your stomach, but thank g ...   Paul_frumkin

01-19-05   Pat, it's inspiring to read your words, and being so honest ...   Boa2

01-19-05   Pat, all of your friends here at audiogon (and there are man ...   Slipknot1

01-20-05   Pat, if anyone can beat the odds, it's you. i think she was ...   Twl

01-20-05   I must say that's the first time anything on audiogon has ma ...   Jond

01-20-05   Lugnut...your last post proves once again that the world's m ...   Danlib1

01-20-05   Hi pat, . well, i think about you every day and check this t ...   Cello

01-21-05: Lugnut
I'm writing this with tears streaming down my cheeks in happiness. This thread and the one I just read about my wife and myself today has moved me like I've never been moved before. My thanks to everyone that has the courage to read and follow all of the heartfelt expressions conveyed here so touchingly. You posters and private emailers are positively fearless. That is what a person in my position needs and I'm saddened that this outpouring isn't happening to every person in similar circumstances. I've been richly rewarded. Not that I don't appreciate the gifts and other acts of generosity but the fearless way you are facing this with me and the support offered is what gives me a measure of what my life has been. I thank you all so much. I really feel like I'm a success in spite of all the mistakes I've made walking this path. My promise to you is to post as long as I am able and to be brutally honest in the hope that perhaps you take more from this experience than the experience takes from you. I love you all.

So, here's my news for today. I called a friend I haven't spoken with for some time due to another persons callous remarks. I wanted to make peace and it came easily for us both. We went out to play pool and I marveled at the juke box and it's ability to nail a rim shot as good as I've ever heard while playing eight ball. Life just doesn't get any better. The lesson here is don't let the stupid stuff get in the way with good folks. They are hard to find. A couple of quarters in a bar table is good therapy. There's always tight jeans walking by and it doesn't hurt to look. Take a break from your troubles and get simple for a few minutes and life is put into perspective. Make peace with yourself and with all that you love.

Tomorrow morning is round one of chemo and I don't expect any negative effects but even if I have one or two I know that I'll be fine and get up and do life as it should be done even if I do it a little slower or rest a little while I'm doing it. The good news is that I probably won't lose my hair for a month or two so I get to keep all of these ugly locks to irritate my friends a little longer. One of the audio club buddies nick named me fuzzy since that's about what it is on top.

I do have a favor to ask of someone that has the ability. I have a photo of Steve Dobbins (Vetterone), Paul Frumkin and myself just prior to surgery and before (as we fondly put it) the last supper. I'd like all of you guys to take a look at us and see just who you are talking to. You might want to bail from this thread!!!!! Har har har. Send me a private email and I'll forward the photo.

Best to all and a heartfelt thanks to the owners of this site for letting such a subject run its course. In the end this is a higher calling than anything audio. It's about every one of us.

Lugnut  (System | Threads | Answers | This Thread)


01-21-05   that's a great line--one in touch with the reality of life. ...   Psychicanimal

01-22-05   Hi all, i'm lugnut's sister, mary. i just wanted to thank a ...   ekstroman@

01-23-05   Well, well. it seems that my sis has chimed in. thanks mary. ...   Lugnut

01-23-05   This thread is unlike anything i have witnessed before, its ...   Tireguy

01-23-05   Well, well, this thread is amazing, always with new plot twi ...   Jmcgrogan2

01-23-05   Tireguy and jmcgrogan, this thread is amazing and i appreci ...   Lugnut

01-23-05   I've been touched by the posts about forgiveness. you starte ...   Tobias

01-23-05   Forgiveness makes it easier to hear everything....   Warrenh

01-23-05   Ok all, pat emailed me the picture of he and steve and paul. ...   Jphii

01-23-05   Thanks jphii, say lugnut, are you a cyclist too? nice t. an ...   Shventus

01-23-05   The t shirt is for fat tire beer which is very popular in th ...   Lugnut

01-23-05   Ahhhhhhhhhhhhkkkkkkkkkk!!!!!!! maybe we should all just sta ...   Jmcgrogan2

01-24-05   John, i was hoping for a reaction like yours! i see it on my ...   Lugnut

01-24-05   Hi all, here is the link to another picture, this time he ...   Jphii

01-24-05   Thanks for the pix, guys. and thanks to you, pat for keepin ...   Swampwalker

01-24-05   A halo i'm sure. she's an angel.   Lugnut

01-24-05   There's much wisdom on this thread, but none any wiser than ...   Dougdeacon

01-24-05   That is one great picture. you guys are gorgeous. yes, i mea ...   Tobias

01-24-05   Tobias, . thank you for being specific. .   Cello

01-24-05   Lugnut, thanks for the photo of you & your wife, she is a l ...   Shventus

01-24-05   Lugnut- your wife is a hell of a lot prettier than you :) g ...   Danlib1

01-25-05   Hi all, doug, i received the cartridge and will install it ...   Lugnut

01-26-05   Fat-tire beer! i knew you were a wise man pat! i love th ...   Slate1

02-01-05   Hi guys, hmm. this thread has been dormant for a few days a ...   Lugnut

02-01-05   We dont want recognoition...just enjoy the stuff,,,but dont ...   Jsujo

02-01-05   Pfffff.....we can't hold our breath much longer... welcome b ...   Peterb


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